A happy Marriage




Happy Marriage 

Every couple before going into conjugal bliss,  hope for a successful marriage.<script async src="https://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-6717586986807567"

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Its a celebration, that involves witnesses and family members, it is a ceremony filled with hope and joy for the future.

Divorce was never a  bargain, neither do separation thought for or planed for. 
Both couple, plan and prepare for a successful wedding, filled with an atmosphere of beautiful colours.
They prepared little or not on their proposed marriage/home.

Marriage, as said by the elder is not a day dream. It is a box filled with several wrapped unknowned gift.

It is good to read books, attend seminars and listen to teaching on marriage, all this also helps and prepared one greatly.

But, there are  some critical issues, if they are not treated, the whole thing can go sour, and disgusting.

Now, let's look into these three main issues, they are

     I 

     Me

     Myself 

 Going back into the scripture 

‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’

This is the first and greatest commandment. And the   second is like it:

‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” (Matthew 22:35-40)

Failure to abide by these laws, generates problems in any relationship.

You tend to focus on yourself alone and your vision, 
your partner should always be the one to make you happy  by satisfying your needs, wants and desires.

Little did you though of how to please and make  him/her happy or how to make his/her comes true.

To have a long lasting successful happy home,  its good to decide and shift your focus from "Me, Mine and I"

Put God first and then your partner, pray and work towards knowing the desire of God and that of your spouse.
And you will see how your home turns to  garden of green pasture filled with still water restoring your partner soul and body.
And your marriage will be able to withstand any storm of life.    













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